How the Three Pillars Prepare Your Student for College | Free College Checklist

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Can God-fearing homeschool families survive the crisis in Western education?

Better yet, can your homeschooled student not only survive but thrive in the transition from high school to college?

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College in America Is in Crisis

I’ve spoken previously about the three areas of crisis in American higher education: economic, academic, and spiritual. (I also discuss these crisis areas in my newest on-demand mini course from Olive Tree Tutorials, Restoring the Foundations of Education.)

Between economic factors like degree inflation (which makes a college degree less competitive in the workforce) and massive student loan debt (a $1.75 trillion burden that cripples more than half of college graduates) and academic factors like the skew toward progressive liberalism in over 80% of humanities departments and the rise of violent antisemitism on campuses since 2023, many families are turning away from the conventional college experience.

Instead, they’re looking at creative or “nontraditional” alternatives for their children: options like trade school, running a family business, internships, or self-directed learning that doesn’t lead to a degree.

What if college is the right next step for your student, though?

(I faced the college vs. SAHD dilemma as a homeschooled 18-year-old. You can read some of my story, and why I’m glad I chose college, here.)

You’ll need to prepare your student thoroughly for the spiritual challenges he or she will face.

Risks of College Attendance

In the 2020s and beyond, attending college in America carries a real danger that students will lose their faith. Anywhere from 52% to 70% of students who enter college as self-identified Christians will leave with no faith.

A study from the Higher Education Research Institute at UCLA found that the number of students who frequently attend religious services drops by 23% after three years in college. Another study found that after three years in college, 36% of students rated their spirituality lower.

After four years in college, up to 59% of students on some campuses no longer describe themselves as “born again.”

Why is it such a struggle for students who come from faith-filled homes to maintain their faith while attending college in America?

John Stonestreet observes that Christian students don’t know how to defend their faith when questioned by professors, so they give up on defending it.

But why do they give up?

I believe it’s because we neglect to teach the whole person.

If we expect our students not just to confidently believe, but to successfully defend, their faith, then having the knowledge base of apologetics (rational truth claims to back up what they believe) isn’t enough.

Three Pillars of Biblical Education

Biblical faith isn’t just built on head knowledge, but on three equally important pillars: the head, the heart, and the character.

Head: what you believe

Heart: what you love

Character: what you do

Most of the families I serve at Olive Tree Tutorials are committed to walking out their faith in a “whole Bible” way. That is, they believe (as I do) that all of God’s Word continues to be valid for today, not just the New Testament. (Whole Bible believers are sometimes called Torah Observant or Messianic.)

In my time in the Whole Bible walk, I’ve noticed that Torah-keeping families tend to be very strong in their head knowledge of God’s Word–just like the majority of Christian homeschoolers, who excel at teaching their children what the Bible says and how to obey it.

Head knowledge by itself, though, leads to feeling inadequate in real-life situations. How do we react when faced with temptation? How do we respond when confronted with human suffering?

Teaching the whole person involves all three pillars equally. A balanced biblical education trains the heart (affections) and character (actions) as well as the mind.

Teaching with the Daniel Plan

I believe teaching the whole person creates leaders like Daniel in Babylon. Like a modern college student, Daniel was taken into captivity for three years to be stripped of his beliefs and remade in the image of Babylonian culture.

Because his parents had given him a foundation based on (1) what he believed, (2) what he loved, and (3) what he should do, he and his three friends courageously refused to eat the king’s meat (meat that had been defiled by offering it to idols representing pagan gods).

Instead of worrying about how to defend his faith, he lived it, and God defended him. God gave him and his friends “knowledge and skill in all learning and wisdom” (Daniel 1:17) that enabled them to overcome the Babylonian programming that was being instilled through their education.

I discuss how to prepare your student for college with the Daniel Plan in two podcast episodes. Listen to them here and here.


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